Who has the right to be upset? Myself or my fianc�?

Sounds like he's a jerk as well as he does not realize he is NOT YOUR DADDY. You might want to think about wasting a chunk of your life with him. Remember your son is watching and getting his cues about respecting women from this jerk that seems to use you like a hooker is for 2 and both need to want it when only 1 does and just satisfies themselves it means your a sperm receptacle and hookers get treated better and then to punish you Honey you and your kid deserve better!!!!!!! Close up shop for a few weeks and point to the baby oil because you just cant put out he's on punishment for being a Male Chauvinistic Pig. Be MAD hes a selfish jerk and is probably laughing about right now and brags to his buddy's about how you know your place and are in check? Forget the white dress and run you cannot change or fix that kind of guy!